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		<title>By: Brad Feld</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brad Feld</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Sep 2010 04:16:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Awesome - glad you like it!  Hope you are well - it&#039;s been a while. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Awesome &#8211; glad you like it!  Hope you are well &#8211; it&#039;s been a while.</p>
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		<title>By: Nick ONeill</title>
		<link>http://www.feld.com/wp/archives/2010/07/give-more-than-you-get.html/comment-page-1#comment-37478</link>
		<dc:creator>Nick ONeill</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Sep 2010 04:14:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just saw this now Brad but I&#039;m glad we both share a similar attitude.  I&#039;m working on a similar post for tomorrow.  Thanks for the inspiration! </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just saw this now Brad but I&#039;m glad we both share a similar attitude.  I&#039;m working on a similar post for tomorrow.  Thanks for the inspiration!</p>
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		<title>By: StartupTrekTV</title>
		<link>http://www.feld.com/wp/archives/2010/07/give-more-than-you-get.html/comment-page-1#comment-34796</link>
		<dc:creator>StartupTrekTV</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Jul 2010 03:53:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>yeah, Brad i probably mis-read this one.  Micah made such an excellent point, I probably shouldn&#039;t have detracted from it with another, probably less-thoughtful comment:)   
   
Certainly, I didn&#039;t mean to imply that i have any insight into how you may or may not react to any issue.  Heck, I&#039;ve only met you once and that was a whirlwind business meeting (a one hour interview) in which i was surprised by your comments on just about everything that we discussed:)     
   
So I was definitely in error if, in my comment implied that i know much of anything of your character, or how you might or might not react to anything.  Just sloppy blog comment writing on my part.   Happens once in a while:-)   
   
Hey, you should be spending your time cleaning up the crisis/mess at Standing Cloud, anyway - right?  :) </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>yeah, Brad i probably mis-read this one.  Micah made such an excellent point, I probably shouldn&#039;t have detracted from it with another, probably less-thoughtful comment:)   </p>
<p>Certainly, I didn&#039;t mean to imply that i have any insight into how you may or may not react to any issue.  Heck, I&#039;ve only met you once and that was a whirlwind business meeting (a one hour interview) in which i was surprised by your comments on just about everything that we discussed:)     </p>
<p>So I was definitely in error if, in my comment implied that i know much of anything of your character, or how you might or might not react to anything.  Just sloppy blog comment writing on my part.   Happens once in a while:-)   </p>
<p>Hey, you should be spending your time cleaning up the crisis/mess at Standing Cloud, anyway &#8211; right?  <img src='http://www.feld.com/wp/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: bfeld</title>
		<link>http://www.feld.com/wp/archives/2010/07/give-more-than-you-get.html/comment-page-1#comment-35225</link>
		<dc:creator>bfeld</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jul 2010 17:59:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Steve. while your hypothesis may be correct, my friend actually responded immediately to my email with &quot;Don&#039;t ever think about it&quot; - basically confirming your assertion of good behavior while refuting your hypothesis that he is a bad behavior. In this particular case, this person wasn&#039;t making me feel bad, or behaving in any inappropriate way. I take completely responsibility for my feelings! </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Steve. while your hypothesis may be correct, my friend actually responded immediately to my email with &#8220;Don&#039;t ever think about it&#8221; &#8211; basically confirming your assertion of good behavior while refuting your hypothesis that he is a bad behavior. In this particular case, this person wasn&#039;t making me feel bad, or behaving in any inappropriate way. I take completely responsibility for my feelings!</p>
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		<title>By: Charlotte Movers</title>
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		<dc:creator>Charlotte Movers</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Jul 2010 21:08:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree with your philosophy but lately I&#039;ve been having a hard time with people that treat your gifts like they are worthless but I guess in the end it doesn&#039;t really matter as long as I did what I could.  </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with your philosophy but lately I&#039;ve been having a hard time with people that treat your gifts like they are worthless but I guess in the end it doesn&#039;t really matter as long as I did what I could.</p>
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		<title>By: yohan</title>
		<link>http://www.feld.com/wp/archives/2010/07/give-more-than-you-get.html/comment-page-1#comment-34209</link>
		<dc:creator>yohan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Jul 2010 11:48:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>nice info, thank you :) </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>nice info, thank you <img src='http://www.feld.com/wp/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: StartupTrekTV</title>
		<link>http://www.feld.com/wp/archives/2010/07/give-more-than-you-get.html/comment-page-1#comment-34126</link>
		<dc:creator>StartupTrekTV</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jul 2010 07:47:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree with micah, there is something out of whack here.  Givers don&#039;t worry about getting; but i&#039;d take it a step further.   
  
My observation is that Brad&#039;s long-time friend, as great as he/she probably is, is out of alignment with the fundamental &quot;give and take&quot;, or ebb and flow of business relationships.  This person seems to be calculating, in an overt fashion, some kind of return on every favor granted, or action taken in a business relationship.  That is not how it&#039;s supposed to work!  There is &quot;quid quo pro&quot;; but you aren&#039;t supposed to have to think about it so hard; it just works - when it does.  When it doesn&#039;t you are very likely doing something wrong.   
  
So i submit that this person is probably failing and has chosen to blame other people.  Wherein the problem, is likely within their own behavior.  And they are choosing to blame others, instead of face up to the problem, which lies within their own control.   
  
As evidence, they have even made their own friend Brad feel guilty/bad - one of the most fun, generous, and thoughtful persons in the venture capital industry.    
  
Case closed! </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree with micah, there is something out of whack here.  Givers don&#39;t worry about getting; but i&#39;d take it a step further.   </p>
<p>My observation is that Brad&#39;s long-time friend, as great as he/she probably is, is out of alignment with the fundamental &quot;give and take&quot;, or ebb and flow of business relationships.  This person seems to be calculating, in an overt fashion, some kind of return on every favor granted, or action taken in a business relationship.  That is not how it&#39;s supposed to work!  There is &quot;quid quo pro&quot;; but you aren&#39;t supposed to have to think about it so hard; it just works &#8211; when it does.  When it doesn&#39;t you are very likely doing something wrong.   </p>
<p>So i submit that this person is probably failing and has chosen to blame other people.  Wherein the problem, is likely within their own behavior.  And they are choosing to blame others, instead of face up to the problem, which lies within their own control.   </p>
<p>As evidence, they have even made their own friend Brad feel guilty/bad &#8211; one of the most fun, generous, and thoughtful persons in the venture capital industry.    </p>
<p>Case closed!</p>
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		<title>By: paramendra</title>
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		<dc:creator>paramendra</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Jul 2010 00:33:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A lot of people struggle with the concept.  </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A lot of people struggle with the concept.</p>
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		<title>By: miccostumes</title>
		<link>http://www.feld.com/wp/archives/2010/07/give-more-than-you-get.html/comment-page-1#comment-33983</link>
		<dc:creator>miccostumes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jul 2010 09:10:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>thanks for sharing, really useful. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>thanks for sharing, really useful.</p>
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		<title>By: Jeff Bussgang</title>
		<link>http://www.feld.com/wp/archives/2010/07/give-more-than-you-get.html/comment-page-1#comment-33886</link>
		<dc:creator>Jeff Bussgang</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jul 2010 02:05:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Brad - you are absolutely one of those people.  I will never forget how incredibly generous you were with your time when you gave me such valuable, thoughtful feedback on my book.  And you never made me feel like it was a quid pro quo - you simply gave.  I really appreciated it and will forever be in your debt.  And I think Micah&#039;s point is consistent with how you are - you don&#039;t do it for the calculus, you just give because you&#039;re generous in spirit.  Thanks again! </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Brad &#8211; you are absolutely one of those people.  I will never forget how incredibly generous you were with your time when you gave me such valuable, thoughtful feedback on my book.  And you never made me feel like it was a quid pro quo &#8211; you simply gave.  I really appreciated it and will forever be in your debt.  And I think Micah&#039;s point is consistent with how you are &#8211; you don&#039;t do it for the calculus, you just give because you&#039;re generous in spirit.  Thanks again!</p>
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