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		<title>By: Josh P.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Josh P.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:55:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rejected title &quot;Hey Fred Wilson, Read This&quot; </description>
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		<title>By: deva_hazari2084</title>
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		<dc:creator>deva_hazari2084</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:55:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excellent post.  Many people  could benefit from changes like that.  So much of what people get stressed out about is the illusion of being busy and urgent and always connected, which often doesn&#039;t really have all that much to do with actually getting stuff done.  Most of those people would end up being more productive and giving higher quality output if they focused on getting some rest and balance in the ways you mention.  Here&#039;s a related blog that&#039;s pretty interesting and makes some good points: &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.37signals.com/svn/posts/966-urgency-is-poisonous &quot;&gt;http://www.37signals.com/svn/posts/966-urgency-is...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excellent post.  Many people  could benefit from changes like that.  So much of what people get stressed out about is the illusion of being busy and urgent and always connected, which often doesn&#039;t really have all that much to do with actually getting stuff done.  Most of those people would end up being more productive and giving higher quality output if they focused on getting some rest and balance in the ways you mention.  Here&#039;s a related blog that&#039;s pretty interesting and makes some good points: <a href="http://www.37signals.com/svn/posts/966-urgency-is-poisonous "></a><a href="http://www.37signals.com/svn/posts/966-urgency-is.." rel="nofollow">http://www.37signals.com/svn/posts/966-urgency-is..</a>.</p>
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		<title>By: peter_hove12341</title>
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		<dc:creator>peter_hove12341</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:55:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the inspiration. I now have my Blackberry set to automatically turn itself off at night. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the inspiration. I now have my Blackberry set to automatically turn itself off at night.</p>
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		<title>By: Ian Lamont</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ian Lamont</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:55:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The advice about not checking email at night is helpful, as is the general theme of shutting off access to networked communications when work is over, whether its email, IM, or a mobile phone. The term &quot;workaholic&quot; has been around for decades, but the electronic element makes the situation far more pervasive. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The advice about not checking email at night is helpful, as is the general theme of shutting off access to networked communications when work is over, whether its email, IM, or a mobile phone. The term &quot;workaholic&quot; has been around for decades, but the electronic element makes the situation far more pervasive.</p>
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		<title>By: bijan</title>
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		<dc:creator>bijan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:55:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post brad. I needed it. </description>
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		<title>By: Emil Sotirov</title>
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		<dc:creator>Emil Sotirov</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:55:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for the &quot;sane&quot; voice on this matter! &lt;br /&gt;
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Too many people project their own &quot;busy-ness&quot; (especially in terms of answering phone calls and emails anytime, anywhere) as an outward measure of their irreplaceability. It&#039;s like saying all the time to the people who happen to be around you - you see, I&#039;m constantly needed somewhere else, by other people... It&#039;s a high school level of social levereging - i.e. total BS! </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for the &quot;sane&quot; voice on this matter! </p>
<p>Too many people project their own &quot;busy-ness&quot; (especially in terms of answering phone calls and emails anytime, anywhere) as an outward measure of their irreplaceability. It&#039;s like saying all the time to the people who happen to be around you &#8211; you see, I&#039;m constantly needed somewhere else, by other people&#8230; It&#039;s a high school level of social levereging &#8211; i.e. total BS!</p>
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		<title>By: BD</title>
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		<dc:creator>BD</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:55:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think it comes down to defining what you want.  I strongly agree with Emil above that many people use stress/business as a measure of &quot;irreplaceability.&quot;  Unfortunately for them, &quot;busy-ness&quot; doesn&#039;t matter, only results do.  I know I&#039;ve fallen into this routine quite often.  &quot;Feeling busy&quot; is completely different from actually getting things done. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think it comes down to defining what you want.  I strongly agree with Emil above that many people use stress/business as a measure of &quot;irreplaceability.&quot;  Unfortunately for them, &quot;busy-ness&quot; doesn&#039;t matter, only results do.  I know I&#039;ve fallen into this routine quite often.  &quot;Feeling busy&quot; is completely different from actually getting things done.</p>
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		<title>By: Franchise Whale</title>
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		<dc:creator>Franchise Whale</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:55:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Really enjoyed it, I wanted to click out and  &lt;br /&gt;
you kept pulling me back in! Many thanks  &lt;br /&gt;
and keep up the great work! </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Really enjoyed it, I wanted to click out and  <br />
you kept pulling me back in! Many thanks  <br />
and keep up the great work!</p>
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		<title>By: Franchise Whale</title>
		<link>http://www.feld.com/wp/archives/2008/04/why-more-stress-is-not-inevitable.html/comment-page-1#comment-8073</link>
		<dc:creator>Franchise Whale</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:55:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great stuff! Thanks for sharing, one fresh  &lt;br /&gt;
idea and you can change the world, keep  &lt;br /&gt;
up the great work. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great stuff! Thanks for sharing, one fresh  <br />
idea and you can change the world, keep  <br />
up the great work.</p>
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		<title>By: Marc Averitt</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marc Averitt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:55:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Amen, brother!  Your story sounds eerily similar to what I experienced during my last few years at Intel.  I was away from home ~15 nights a month in places like Russia, China, South America, and other &quot;far away&quot; places.  I chose to leave it all behind a few years ago (upon the birth of my son) and haven&#039;t really looked back since.  I&#039;m now a &quot;local&quot; VC in SoCal and loving every minute of it.  Life is truly short -- live it stress free. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amen, brother!  Your story sounds eerily similar to what I experienced during my last few years at Intel.  I was away from home ~15 nights a month in places like Russia, China, South America, and other &quot;far away&quot; places.  I chose to leave it all behind a few years ago (upon the birth of my son) and haven&#039;t really looked back since.  I&#039;m now a &quot;local&quot; VC in SoCal and loving every minute of it.  Life is truly short &#8212; live it stress free.</p>
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		<title>By: Chris Yeh</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chris Yeh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:55:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Something I learned back when I started my first company is that there is always more you can do.  There&#039;s always one more email, one more phone call, one more Google search that might help your business. &lt;br /&gt;
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In the end, however, each day has only 24 hours, and when those hours are gone, they are gone forever.  Moreover, you have only so many days to live, and each day that passes brings you one step closer to the cold embrace of death. &lt;br /&gt;
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Starting companies (or investing in them) is hard work.  But stress, however justified, does not help your productivity.  It&#039;s better to compartmentalize and make sure that you leave enough of your time and energy to actually live your life. &lt;br /&gt;
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The best way to find happiness is not to defer it to a far-off, continually receding future, but to seek it in the here and now. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Something I learned back when I started my first company is that there is always more you can do.  There&#039;s always one more email, one more phone call, one more Google search that might help your business. </p>
<p>In the end, however, each day has only 24 hours, and when those hours are gone, they are gone forever.  Moreover, you have only so many days to live, and each day that passes brings you one step closer to the cold embrace of death. </p>
<p>Starting companies (or investing in them) is hard work.  But stress, however justified, does not help your productivity.  It&#039;s better to compartmentalize and make sure that you leave enough of your time and energy to actually live your life. </p>
<p>The best way to find happiness is not to defer it to a far-off, continually receding future, but to seek it in the here and now.</p>
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		<title>By: Alex Iskold</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alex Iskold</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:55:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Brad, &lt;br /&gt;
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While I was reading this post, I checked my email 3 times. And then Twitter too. What can I say, I am crazy ADD this way. Oh and yeah I was working on the product power point - continuous partial attention. You know how that goes.  &lt;br /&gt;
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I am joking of course. And truthfully, I am trying to control stress by exercising, but I can&#039;t be off the grid, at least does not seem this way. &lt;br /&gt;
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The major point that I was making is that most of us are not going to be strong enough to resist the pace and the stress. We will be pulled in. Me, my wife, my dad, inevitably. The environment that demands that we process more information faster is causing stress. &lt;br /&gt;
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Now, I am really glad that you are able to hold the wall up and to resists. Kudos to you, thats brilliant and I am impressed ;) </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Brad, </p>
<p>While I was reading this post, I checked my email 3 times. And then Twitter too. What can I say, I am crazy ADD this way. Oh and yeah I was working on the product power point &#8211; continuous partial attention. You know how that goes.  </p>
<p>I am joking of course. And truthfully, I am trying to control stress by exercising, but I can&#039;t be off the grid, at least does not seem this way. </p>
<p>The major point that I was making is that most of us are not going to be strong enough to resist the pace and the stress. We will be pulled in. Me, my wife, my dad, inevitably. The environment that demands that we process more information faster is causing stress. </p>
<p>Now, I am really glad that you are able to hold the wall up and to resists. Kudos to you, thats brilliant and I am impressed <img src='http://www.feld.com/wp/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Ann</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ann</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:55:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Alex, I hope you soon realize that you need to stop and smell the roses while you&#039;re still here.  Preoccupation with ideas of  &quot;importance&quot; and &quot;power&quot; divert us from the truth, we&#039;re all alive for a short period.  We all will eventually pass in to oblivion.  If you&#039;re fortunate, you&#039;ll have taken the time to develop meaningul social relationships with  people during your short time on this planet.  It&#039;s the memories of our loved ones that keep our legacies alive.   </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Alex, I hope you soon realize that you need to stop and smell the roses while you&#039;re still here.  Preoccupation with ideas of  &quot;importance&quot; and &quot;power&quot; divert us from the truth, we&#039;re all alive for a short period.  We all will eventually pass in to oblivion.  If you&#039;re fortunate, you&#039;ll have taken the time to develop meaningul social relationships with  people during your short time on this planet.  It&#039;s the memories of our loved ones that keep our legacies alive.</p>
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		<title>By: Kurtiss Hare</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kurtiss Hare</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:55:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I stand united on this one. </description>
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		<title>By: howard lindzon</title>
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		<dc:creator>howard lindzon</dc:creator>
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		<description>240 is a big number.  I would have kicked your ass on the tennis courts.     &lt;br /&gt;
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How true about choice.  We are so lucky to have them. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>240 is a big number.  I would have kicked your ass on the tennis courts.     </p>
<p>How true about choice.  We are so lucky to have them.</p>
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